The Trials of the Directionally Challenged!

Unraveling the Mystery of Handedness

Have you ever found yourself in a perpetual state of confusion, unsure of which hand to use for a simple task? Do you awkwardly switch between your right and left hands, feeling like you're an outlier in a world of confident righties and lefties? If so, you're not alone. The world of handedness is a fascinating one, a topic ripe for exploration.

The Right-Handed Majority: A Tale of Genes and Evolution

Let's start with the basics. Why are most people right-handed? It's a question that has puzzled scientists for centuries, and the answer is a complex blend of genetics, brain development, and even external pressures.

For starters, handedness is not a simple, binary choice, but a spectrum of preferences and abilities. A strong genetic component is at play. Studies of identical twins show that if one twin is right-handed, the other is very likely to be as well. While no single "right-handedness gene" has been discovered, researchers believe that a combination of genes influences which side of our brain becomes dominant. The left hemisphere of the brain controls the right side of the body, and in most people, it's the left hemisphere that takes the lead, dictating our preference for using our right hand.

Other factors may also play a role. Some theories suggest that the prevalence of right-handedness may be linked to early human tool-making and social cooperation. The ability to use the right hand for tasks like spear-throwing or tool-making may have provided an advantage, leading to the passing down of this trait through generations.

The Left-Handed Minority: A Unique Perspective

Then there are the lefties, the creative and often misunderstood minority. Approximately 10% of the world's population is left-handed, and their brains are wired differently. In lefties, the right hemisphere of the brain, which controls the left side of the body, is dominant. This unique brain wiring may contribute to the stereotype that lefties are more creative or artistic, although the scientific evidence on this is mixed.

The world is, for the most part, designed for right-handed people. From scissors and can openers to guitar fretboards and computer keyboards, lefties often have to adapt to a world that isn't built for them. But this constant adaptation may also be a source of their unique skills and perspectives.

The Ambiguous Middle: The World of Ambidextrousness

But what about those of us who don't fit into either category? What about the people who feel equally comfortable using both hands for different tasks? This is the world of ambidextrousness, and it's where things get really interesting.

True ambidextrousness, where a person can perform any task with either hand with equal skill or dexterity, is extremely rare. However, many people are what's known as "cross-dominant," meaning they prefer one hand for certain tasks and the other for different ones. For example, you might write with your right hand but play sports with your left. This is a common and perfectly normal variation of handedness.

The causes of ambidextrousness are not fully understood, but some theories suggest it may be the result of a less dominant brain hemisphere, or even a genetic predisposition. Some people are also "trained" to be ambidextrous, meaning they were originally left-handed but learned to use their right hand due to societal pressures or for convenience.

The fact is, though, that whether or not you're left-handed or right-handed, whether or not you’re truly ambidextrous or you show signs of being cross-dominant, you may or may not be directionally challenged.

I know a great deal about being directionally challenged, having had to deal with my inability to tell left from right, east from west or north from south for over sixty years! It is not easy having to be constantly making excuses for your navigational foibles, but I want everyone to know that there are a lot of directionally challenged people in the world!

In fact, I’ve written a book about being directionally challenged. The title is Center Brained: Why you can't tell left from right, east from west or north from south.  I wrote the book because I want directionally challenged people to stop feeling shame for not being able to navigate as others do, and I want those who have no difficulty identifying their left and right, and the four cardinal points, to be empathetic with us, to try to walk a mile in our shoes, and to understand what we experience on a daily basis. 

You can find my book at https://amazon.com/dp/B0F3XT7HPT, as well as on other platforms such as barnesandnoble.com, and walmart.com. It is available in hardcover, paperback, and as an ebook, the audio version is currently under production.

Please pick up a copy and read it, then join me in a movement to get recognition and acknowledgement for the directionally challenged. Let’s make this world a better place for all of us!